We take the rare step today of clarifying our position owing to recent events.
Over the years Hogspy.com has maintained a dignified silence towards all sorts of people who at some stage have decided to take it upon themselves & speak poorly of us whether it be on a Social media site, message boards or somewhere similar, we have never used Hogspy to retalieate or “out” anyone or hit back & have never published private communications that we have received, always preferring to keep matters private & look to resolve them amicably where a dispute arises.
Now, before you start wondering how many of these situations come up I can tell you it’s very few, very few indeed especially when you consider the volume of articles posted over the years but sometimes things can go a bit wrong, usually through misinterpretation but thankfully most things get sorted pretty quickly & no one’s usually any the wiser, after all, we keep things private.
Those of you who follow us not only on here but on various other sites across the net may have noticed one or two (so called) Professional Dominatrices publish private communications of mine & posted them in various different places recently, a situation that I’m completely not accepting of & one that has extremely disappointed me.
Hogspy.com has always exercised discretion in the FemDom world, something we feel is absolutely vital for all those that partake, whether you’re a Dominatrix, slave, sub, site owner or whatever, discretion is vital for all those involved, we do not think it appropriate or fair for anyone, especially practising Domina’s to publish private communications & personal details without permission, however that’s exactly whats recently occurred with myself despite the fact that I oferred to resolve matters & even oferred a U-Turn to try put things right very early on in the situation. (they probably didn’t tell you that bit in their original defamatory postings)
Today Hogspy will not be naming the Dommes involved, we are making a conscious choice not to sink to their level as we maintain what we feel is the right way to go about things, ie discreetly & in private but rest assured we continue to pursue those involved vigorously & repeat our request for all the articles to be removed with immediate effect. (Even a simple Retweet can have serious ramifications)
Everyone who works in the FemDom scene or enjoys it on any level whatsoever we think should be afforded total & utter discretion, how on earth can a slave or sub confidently book an appointment if “loose Cannon” Mistresses begin to expose people simply because they haven’t got their own way? how could a Dominatrix continue if an angry slave or sub started posting all Her personal details across various message boards & sites thereby putting Her at risk & causing lots of unnecessary distress & damaging Her business affairs? Hogspy maintains it’s stance of total discretion despite recent events & attacks on my name & business activities, admittedly it’s a very hard thing to do right now but something I’m not prepared to change.
The above situation had it’s beginnings within an email received by us from a Dominatrix who wanted some news posting & with this in mind I’d like to clear up an important topic & provide clarity.
Firstly, every Dominatrix on the planet is welcome to send us their news, yes we have a few restrictions as to what we’ll run but overall we’re happy to publish most things that suit our site & if not we usually write back explaining why.We ask for basic information along with the web site address & pictures to accompany, there’s a form we have on the “Contact” section of the site which very clearly states our requirements in terms of what we need, picture dimensions etc.
It’s important to understand that all Dominatrices are equal as far as we are concerned, every one, no matter what country, shape, size, etc we will run articles on pretty much most Dommes in accordance with our news submission requirements as seen on the contact page.
As most of you know we sell advertising space on Hogspy, however, just because a Domina buys an Advert it does not entitle Her to any special treatment whatsover, yes there’s an element of “All Dommes Are Equal But Some Are More Equal Than Others” but only to a very tiny degree, that’s human nature, advertisers may stand out in my inbox when their latest news arrives but their article doesnt get priority over anyone else or treated any differently.
Adverts are exactly that, they’re adverts & do not entitle anyone who has taken one out eternal favour or special treatment from me, an Ad is an Ad & most Advertisers do well in terms of bookings, Clip sales & profile building as a result of paying for one but please don’t make the mistake of thinking you can get more than anyone else in terms of exposure or not send us what we need, expecting us to trawl the net looking for it, of course we’ll do that occasionally but to keep repeating this & expecting favour simply because you’ve advertised at some point in the past is a misgiuded train of thought.
No individual Domme is bigger than Hogspy, no one has more clout than anyone else, I care not one bit who you are (Or who your whopping great big ego tells you who you think you are) or how long you’ve been “In the scene”, if you advertised in the past that’s great, we’re sure you done well out of it, thank you, but that’s it.
Rest assured I thought long & hard about posting this article, however, on this occasion I feel I have the absolute right to redress things, tell me, how would you feel if your emails were plastered accross different sites on the net,? ok, there’s nothing too personal within them, none the less I did not want them posted & expressly requested their removal.
Fair enough, you may now go seeking out the aforementioned expossed emails, I’ll hold my hands up & admit that at one point I “lost it” a bit & my tone could well have been better but it’s hardly surpirssing given it was a Sunday afternoon & just like most people at that time of week I was trying to relax & always remember I had given more than one offer for a solution & oferred to run the article very early on but stll the emails got uploaded in some fuelled up mental attack.
Those that are involved or even have Retweeted or made comments elsewhere are reminded that I am pursuing this through legal channels, attacks have been launched on me & having made numerous requests to those involved to remove the emails (which they still haven’t) I’m left with no alternative.
Dominatrices, Mistresses, Goddesses & Female Dominants are warmly invited to send me their latest news & pictures, rest assured normal service resumes here at Hogspy (along with discretion) & we look forward to hearing from you with any news you have, we’ll take a look & probably run it
We will not be returning to this topic anytime soon for various different reasons & I sincerely thank you for taking the time reading this slightly unconventional article tonight.